Compatibility Calculator

When I sit today and frame my memories,I remember the day when my horoscope was matched with that of Would-be Groom...I was excited to know what was the result and I expected to hear something great...After long hours of wait,Bapa and Maa brought in the news from our "Jyothisa",astrologer that it was "Mitra Sadastaka"...What was that I guessed???For I have always heard of "Rajajotaka",it meant the best of compatibility and its a 100% match...I was a bit disheartened...All I got to know that it was good but one of the partner will keep sick all the time,i.e Mitra Sadastaka...At that point of time,my Bapa seeing me disheartened came to my rescue and he cheered me up with his words which still echo in my ears...He said,"That he had a 100% compatibility with Maa,i.e Rajajotaka.How did it matter to him???He has never understood till date but rather with being with Maa and making things compatible was a huge venture for him in this relationship.So,he said me its We who play a major role in relationship compatibility although our stars play some part but not the whole."The other thing the Jyothisa said was "The GROOM is the Dhana (wealth) and the Bride is the Bhagagya (Luck) to each other in this alliance."The second statement was brought out by Maa and I confirmed it myself from the Jyothisa that he said that along with the Mitra Sadastaka thing and it wasn't a lie to brighten my disheartened spirit...

Eventually,I got married but still somehow I was hooked about the compatibility factor...So, be it a newspaper article,quiz or calculation of how compatible you are with your partner on the web,they happen to appear BOLD everywhere and my attention is grabbed but all that...I loved doing it and with a passage of time, it became an habit for me...I enjoyed it and I was trying to co-relate myself and my partner's behaviour,personality,etc...with the results...I didn't know whether the results were true or I was trying to make it appear true by relating to it...I was completely swayed off...Indian,Chinese,Western,Persian,Egyptian,you name it...

It was the other day,I was out for my walk to a nearby chruch and at the chruch I met a Chinese old lady...Till that day we met often praying at the church, but just smiled and bid Hello and passed by...I dont know what was it but she happened to say me something unusual...She said that "The princess has found her prince probably after kissing far to many frogs!"...I didnt know what it meant and even I wondered if she said that to me or she was in her right mind as she was very old...But I even couldn't relate it other than just thinking of the wonderful childhood fairytale "The Frog Prince".Some days later,one night while surfing the internet, I had some pop-ups even though I try to block them yet sometimes they just flood in from no where...And one of the pop up was "Calculate Ur Compatibility".I jumped into it and it i was directed to some Chinese Astrology Compatibility Calculator...I gave all the required inputs and waited patiently for the result page to load...To my wonder I was very happy to see, it was an Excellent Match and the lines quoted were "The princess has found her prince probably after kissing far to many frogs! "I tried to recollect for I had heard that somewhere else and I was then thunderstruck when I remembered that old lady.how did she know that???I never even spoke about myself nothing more than a warm welcome smile and Hello...How come ???Even though I was a bit scared yet excited and very curious, how did she know that???Later on I got to know she is bestowed with this special quality by God and has helped many people around in my neighbourhood...She has the quality to answer unquestioned to the unknown...I couldn't believe that but something I wanted to believe...So when I meet her now I really feel that she should say me something but she is silent and just smiles and passes by...I always wonder why did she chose to answer me on this Compatibility thing even though I had lot of other questions on my plate...But anywayz,I am happy for the end result and will treasure this all my life...I tried to stop doing all that making myself believe that my quest has been answered...But kya karen,whenever I see something like Compatibility calculator,I am shaken...Kya Karen, Kamabhaat Dil nahin Maanta hai...